Sex on demand is not what a relationship is all about – regardless of the genders involved. Yet all too often that, next to money, seems to be the basis of most relationship stress. I’m pretty sure money wouldn’t matter if there was a more relaxed attitude about sex.
gimme more tongue action
I am, around sexual issues, a fairly amoral guy though. I find the idea of sexual fidelity as being the sole proof of one’s love to be counterproductive. He can smack me around but the sex is great. She can run me into debt but the sex is great. Not that’s not it – it’s more like: He can smack me around but sometimes the sex is okay.
petal paved road
I sometimes suspect that sexual infidelity is an excuse to get out of a relationship one is tired of – then get rewarded for it (i.e. Tiger Woods ex-wife). Now this slips into the history of marriage & that legal attempt to control nature sexual yearnings.
does not copy
One can legislate behaviour, some what, but you can’t pass laws that change how people think. Spousal abuse is criminal, but do you think that law stops people who do it or even makes them think differently. Sure we have gay marriage, but that’s no solution to homophobic thinking.
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Fidelity
he’s your boyfriend?
he never mentioned anyone else
yes I see how this is upsetting you
it’s not as if I picked him up
oh is that what he said
what was I thinking?
I was thinking it would be a good time
nsa as they say no strings attached
I assumed he had no strings on him
plus it wasn’t strings that were pulled
sorry didn’t mean to take you so lightly
why you are surprised and hurt
after all men are horn dogs
or is it the fact that he was sleeping
with a guy
that’s got you so upset
look I told you
I didn’t know that he was engaged
that you have two kids already
I didn’t set out to steal your man
he was just some sort of cute guy
I ran into at Timothy’s
simple as that
I was looking at Xtra
and he sat down to look at it too
one thing lead to another and another
we didn’t get into history just into bed
and if you want to know the truth
if he was getting what needed from you
maybe he wouldn’t have bothered with me
simple as that
