your cheatin’ desk
I wasn’t sure what to call this Fidelity post because words such as Fraud, Farce or Facade all seems quite as appropriate. The recent hoo-ha over that adultery site had amused and puzzled me. Once again the sanctity of heterosexual property control has been sullied. I’d say marriage but marriage was originally created as a method of property control – love had nothing to do with it (& often still doesn’t.)
the kid’s not mine
As the wave of shock over the Ashley Madison breach ripples out there have been suicides. That is seriously fucked up – killing yourself over some sex play – or rather, over being caught. Then again this comes from a culture were suicide is an acceptable alternative to being a queer.
the broken home
There is a long history of gay men & women being blackmailed & now, guess what, those furtive Madison fun seekers are now facing the same thing. Hardly surprising in this unbalanced culture where property is more precious than human life; where a moment of possible disrespect of the police justifies death; where being caught two-faced is a matter of spin – ‘I hate homos but secret infidelity is fine & now I’m seeking treatment.’
Clearly many of us are enjoying the the hypocrisy this reveals more than the actual infidelity – faces in the news who have a history of righteous posturing revealed to be ‘vile, corrupted sinners’ & not saintly true loving all-Americans.
The only thing more fragile that fidelity is the heterosexual male ego – a man kills sex worker as the result of trans panic!? The only way to impress the world that he wasn’t sexually abnormal was to kill this threat to his image. Sex worker is clearly at fault (I’m being facetious).
here’s an old piece, one posted here before, coincidentally on the first Friday in September 2014:
he’s your boyfriend?
he never mentioned anyone else
yes I see how this is upsetting you
it’s not as if I picked him up
oh is that what he said
what was I thinking?
I was thinking it would be a good time
nsa as they say no strings attached
I assumed he had no strings on him
plus it wasn’t strings that were pulled
sorry didn’t mean to take you so lightly
why you are surprised and hurt
after all men are horn dogs
or is it the fact that he was sleeping
with a guy
that’s got you so upset
look I told you
I didn’t know that he was engaged
that you have two kids already
I didn’t set out to steal your man
he was just some sort of cute guy
I ran into at Timothy’s
simple as that
I was looking at Xtra
and he sat down to look at it too
one thing lead to another and another
we didn’t get into history just into bed
and if you want to know the truth
if he was getting what needed from you
maybe he wouldn’t have bothered with me
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you’ll leave me in a body bag